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Date: Nov. 01, 2008
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I need some help. Whoever prays on here please pray for my son. I found a suicide note the other day and a box cutter. I then read his myspace page and found out he has been drinking,smoking,tried drugs, and is cutting himself.  I had no choice but to admit him into the behavior health clinic. I am still in disbelief that my baby has been doing this even though I saw it with my own eyes and took him there and spent 5 hours with him last night talking with him and the people. It is still so very shocking. After all them hours of talking he told me he is depressed cause of the hiv and wants to be with girls but afraid to  to pass it to her and afraid to tell them cause they may tell the whole school.  I wish there was a place he could meet other girls with hiv. I tried to have him on here but he hasn\'t had any luck. I feel so bad for him and just want so bad to help him but what can I do?  Even in the note he said he did it cause of the hiv.  His insurance sucks and they only want to keep him for 5 days and they only want to keep him for that amount of time (I won\'t find out more until tonight though). With insurance they want me to pay 1100 bucks.  I feel he needs to be there at least a month but cannot afford it. Just please pray for him and pray I find a way to keep him there longer. Thanks all. 






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From: Line
November 2, 2008, 3:22 am

That's so sad to read, Nonner!

Do hope you'll get some help for your boy, help him focus on the future, not the present...he's so young :-(

Wish you all the luck, you need to get there.



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November 1, 2008, 5:50 pm

Donna, talk to a HIV case manager, like right now. He might be able to get SAMSA help too. I cant remember if you are in or around the Phoenix area. If so, call the health department. Substance abuse and mental health, or better yet Ryan White Service coordinator. There you maybe able to get alot more info, than i can give. Here, in this state, its 5 days state paid, when no insurance. Thats the max. I do hope this helps, and of course, if there is anything i or others can do. Don't hesitate. I will pray for you and your son. Hang in there!!!



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November 1, 2008, 4:30 pm

i am ....so sad....you know nothing will be solved in 5 days....he seems to have a situational depression....so it's probably not due to chemichal imbalance,therefore meds wouldn't be so great....i hate this type of depression cause the person can be brilliant and rationalise their self destructive actions....therapie and love are the solution....but the outcome is uncertain....this requires time !....he shouldn't be released at this point....and after his release treatment and fallow up have to be rather intense....it is important that he trusts his therapist,if he doesn't he won't walk the path ....and the cure will only come from a oersonnal demarche and the adoption of renewed values....the road might be long and filled with ambush.....be aware for the 2 of you and guide him.....lol



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From: LoriB
November 1, 2008, 4:11 pm

Yikes, Nonner, so sorry to hear this. First you need to speak with a social worker at the facility to see about other funding that might be able to help with the expense. They can not legally release him if he is still a danger to himself or others. The important thing is your son. Makes sure they release him with a contract to make phone calls and to talk to others if he begins to feel suicidal again. Keep him in therapy after he is released and try to find a support group for youth with HIV. The facility should be able to help you with finding the resources if not your local ASO should be able to guide you, does your son have a case manager? Talk to his case manager, I know here the case managers visit their clients in the hospitals and are there through the crises to help.  My prayers are with you.



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