Verbal Abuse

By: Jasmin
Mood: Angry
Date: Apr 04, 2013
Music: Telephone - Lady Gaga

There's this guy with the username "Desperate". He's the guy I said I had to report for verbal abuse. I think it was around November last year that he first contacted me and wanted to know how I got HIV at 15 years old. When I told him, he then said I wasn't right in the head and that I needed mental help. That's when I had to report him for verbal abuse. I tried to give him his space because maybe I had said something that was offensive to him.Today, he contacted me because he had read my blog and told me there was this free website for HIV positive singles. I had commented on his profile saying did he realize he was talking to the same person he was talking to a year before? And I said he had some nerve to call himself a Christian. When I checked back on his profile, my two comments had been deleted. I'm just asking you guys, if you happen to be friends with this guy, can you please just ask him what I did wrong? I was really hurt by his words. Maybe I can fix it because I don't want anyone on here to be mad at me and give me a bad reputation.



April 6, 2013, 10:44 pm

I've been a member since June '08 and I and other long time members have  witnessed a particular woman driven off the site not once but twice by this kind of behavior.  Stand up, hunker down and don't let these alleged 'men' make you feel 'less than' you are as a valid human being, no matter your age. That kind of behavior speaks more to who they are than who you are.


I don't believe in that phony hero stuff -Steve McQueen-

April 6, 2013, 7:53 pm

Some people are just desperate cases. That being said, I am not judging the guy, I don't know him, but nobody deserves to be harrassed or put down, no matter what, so report. And don't let what anyone says bad affect you, unless they are people who love you and care about you, because only those want what is good for you.


Hapiness comes from within.

April 5, 2013, 3:55 pm

Report abuse. Block those you don't wish to receive comments from.


What if the hokey pokey is really what it's all about?

April 5, 2013, 11:38 am

 Go to profile settings security and at the bottom you will see tab to block people .also write to admin again with copy of his mail/messages not advisable to join any single websites ,, .. you are too young !! (says your granny)



From: Andre
April 4, 2013, 10:19 pm

 Jasmin let me give you a bit of advice that has helped me throughout the years. If someone is being negative for the sake of being negative and NOT offering constructive criticism. It's usually best to ignore them. I don't know what went on between you two but MJ has the right idea just block the guy so you don't have to eal with him. Sometimes the simplest solution really is the best :) 


Laugh more it won't kill you.

From: harcase
April 4, 2013, 9:56 pm


You can't fix him!!!!!! From what you wrote he abuse you first time you chatted with him!!!!! He is a person that is Angry with him self you CANT fix it!!!! Just leave it be you know what type of person you are when you look into your mirror if you are good with that then BE HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!